Friends Or Foe

Mum’s been down for a visit.  We normally schedule her pilgrimage from up north down to that fancy London to coincide with one of the children’s birthday parties, but not this time. It was mum’s idea to break with tradition and pop down during a regular week and I don’t blame her, she probably wanted to avoid being met at my door by an already frazzled me brandishing a butter knife and a tub of Clover, signalling poor mum’s shift on butty-making duty has begun before she’s even got her coat off. So, this time things were different. She arrived to a warm hug and a hot brew and didn’t have to decant a single packet of Hula Hoops.

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10 surprising signs that they're interested

When someone fancies you, they don’t always show it in the way you’d expect. Miss the signals, and your chance has gone. Next time, look out for these surprising signs and don’t let them get away. Love happen it could be right under your nose. 

Here's the 10 signs that will leave you wondering on whether the way they were acting wasn't just due to the fact that they truly fancied you.  

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What are your bad habits?

Smoking? Talking too much? Always being late?  Drinking too much? Untidiness?  Procrastination?

We’ve all got them.   But the great news is that they don’t need to take over our lives if we decide to  deal with them once and for all.

Within this article are 5 simple reasons for breaking a bad habit.

Bad habits  

Whether it’s a perpetual pile of clothes in the corner you’re waiting to someday turn into gold, a self-proclaimed disability which renders you unable to refrain from interrupting or, a knack for timing your exit just so, so that someone else is continually left to pick up the dishes, 

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20 CONFIDENCE TIPS- Part 2

     1.     Whenever you feel a negative thought coming, STOP, THINK, and say is this really important in the grand scheme of things. A lot of the time it isn’t. Many people in life major in minor things!

   2.    Do you let the words of others affect you? Do you mind what they think of you? Remember that no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. It’s not what they say to you that’s the problem it’s what you say to yourself after they have stopped talking that’s the problem. Change the way you think.

3.    List the words that you use on a consistent basis when you feel let down or annoyed. People use different words to mean the same thing and depending upon the intensity of the word – this will have an effect on your confidence. Instead of saying “I’m enraged about this” say, “I’m a little annoyed”. Make a substitute list for the words that you use. Make sure they are lower in intensity and then use them. You’ll be surprised with the results.

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